In the early years of marriage, couples usually find it easy to schedule date nights. Most don’t even have to think about it - spending intimate time together is a way of life. But as soon as children come along and responsibilities get more intense, date nights become scarce and have little focus. Before long, partners find themselves going through the motions of marriage, feeling a loss of romance and unsure what changed.

Well, Guess what? Dating your spouse changed!

Dating in your marriage should be one of the most important responsibilities you have and here’s why:

Date nights give couples time to deepen the connection without distractions. In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it’s easy to get caught up in work, household chores, and taking care of the kids - life is chaotic! And these things are all important, but they can also take a toll on your relationship if you don’t make time for just the two of you every once in a while. Date nights give you a chance to slow down, have some fun, and focus on each other without any distractions.

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Dating your spouse can help improve your communication skills. When you’re able to spend some quality time together without any interruptions, you’re more likely to open up and really connect with each other. Dating in your marriage can help you discover new interests or where each other’s desires have changed. This can also help improve your communication skills overall and make it easier to resolve conflicts when they do come up.

Date nights can reignite the spark in your relationship. It’s easy to get comfortable in a long-term relationship and let the romance fall by the wayside. But making an effort to keep things fresh can make a world of difference. Regular date nights can help you and your partner remember why you fell in love in the first place. It’s the perfect opportunity to try something new together or just enjoy each other’s company without any interruptions. Whatever you do, taking some time to focus on your relationship is sure to pay off in the long run.

Making date nights a part of your normal routine increases happiness. When you date your spouse, you are telling them that you still find them attractive and interesting. This builds self-confidence and a strong sense of security within the relationship. With the attraction and connection alive and well, the happiness will pour over throughout the home creating a healthy home environment.

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Date nights can inspire new adventures. Most couples who have been married for an extended period of time will probably tell you it’s easy to get into a mundane routine. One day you look at each other and ask how you got to this place, especially when you vowed that you would never be that boring couple. It's easy to lose your energy too, but by dating your spouse regularly, you have the ability to shake things up. It doesn’t have to be extravagant, just different from what you usually do. Date nights may seem like an optional item on your “to-do” list or a task that requires planning but truthfully, dating can re-energize your entire relationship.  

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Dating your spouse can strengthen your foundation. Investing in your marriage can build resilience to carry your relationship through the most challenging times. With a strong foundation and continuous dating, you can build resilience to carry your marriage through every difficult situation life throws at you, as a team. After all, marriage is a partnership and you and your partner can achieve the most out of life when you work together.

If money is keeping you and your spouse from going on a date, consider bartering childcare with a friend with whom you can return the favor. Also, don’t be afraid to put the kids to bed early and spend your date night from the comfort of your own home. 

Dating your spouse doesn’t mean you have to spend a lot of money or always plan something extravagant. Dating your spouse is about keeping the romance alive, deepening your connection, appreciating each other, being intimate together and of course, having a healthy marriage. 

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